Watch Everything and Still See ONLY What Is Good

I saw the movie Tomcats (starring Jerry O`Connell, Shannon Elizabeth, Jaime Pressly, Jake Busey and Horatio Sanz). It was a standard 'sex is good, but sex-with-love is Heaven'-comedy—the standard being "excellent," true; but I'll probably forget about it in a week or two.

I feel enlightened watching a scene in which Jerry's character is making a deposit in a sperm-bank. It's tastefully filmed (no naughty-parts), but that's not the point.

The point is that the 'stimulational' video he watches in order to make his deposit only gets down to the 'making out in underwear' before he imagines being with Shannon's character and manages a deposit of three full cups (compared to his friend's deposit that barely covers the bottom of one cup).

This offers a clue as to why cleavage is so attractive—because the true mind of man isn't after the actual 'points of interest' as much as 'the clues that indicate posession of those points.'

The man's mind sees the breast's cleavage, and he knows the approximate location, texture, size and shape of the nipple; and so on.

Tomcats--as I said--was a good comedy. That is to say; I enjoyed watching it, but my life won't revolve around it anymore than the lives of the participating comedians do. Rated "R" (appropriately), you won't want to show it to the kids; but there's not much "sex for sex's sake" (all the sex is presented as it would actually happen in real lfe), and of course it has its "Power of Love"-lesson, so I would recommend it for when the kids are asleep.