Putting a positive spin on it, I'd call it 'A Testament to the Need for Polygamy.'
Long-story-short: Ben's character gets married too early a couple of times, and both times realizes that the right girl is one he doesn't really know.
I agree that marriage should be holy, but monogamistic marriage is "selfishness" ... I don't want to be selfish!
The movie itself was bad because I think movies should be resolved worlds-unto-themselves. You know, most movies start out on the ground, delve main characters into valleys, let them acheive mountains, and either let them off at a good level or let them acheive the peak! This movie just showed that Ben's going to keep digging himself deeper-and-deeper and it didn't even stop at a plateau; it showed that he had reached one, but was about to dig again.