For the controversial (especially for the times) topics that this film touches on, it is handled with a careful grace by director Louis Malle, and never becomes garish or even uncomfortable, unlike modern day "coming-of-age" films (say, for instance, Running With Scissors). What sets it apart from other films in this category is you get a sense that even though these characters are well-to-do and somewhat troubled, they are, first and foremost, FAMILY. There are scenes of playful tickling, jovial banter and sincere arguments that make it feel more like watching a documentary than a fictional film. Even though the time period of the film is suppose to take place in the '50's, it feels like a '70's film through and through, and I noticed a lot in common with Truffaut's "The 400 Blows" than anything else. A fine film - give it a look see...if you can find it.