I found this film only average. Yes, there's an interesting plotline involving adoption, the search for significance, regret, etc. but I felt that the actors in the film couldn't pull off the emotional depth of their characters...with the exception of Bonnie Hunt, who I felt was the most believable.
Also, I wasn't aware of the film's straightforward depiction of homosexual relationships prior to renting it on Netflix...something some folks might want to know prior to viewing.
Maybe it's me, but the actor who played the adopted son...in the most climactic scene of his personal quest where he finally breaks down...seemed so stilted and unemotional (not very believable) it was hard to feel the pain associated with him...
This film is a quiet film, a bit like Junebug, a bit like the Straight Story in tone and sense of time, and focuses on the relationships. However, I didn't feel that the film went to such anguished depths as a movie like "In the Bedroom"... which I think is a more powerful depiction of parental regret and anguish.
Sarandon and Harper's role as the parents of the runaway son didn't seem to develop fully. They seemed a bit flat.
Overall, it was a decent film that I neither hated nor liked...just seemed average.