Dear Arin,
I was overjoyed when i finally discovered some news from you two in my inbox yesterday. I had given up after months and months of checking my podcast subscrition HOPING.
I wanted to state the obvious for Arin which might not be obvious to Arin since Susan was the first lady love ever in his life. It's a little advice on how the woman in your life wants to be treated. I noticed that you tend to go on and on about how you want Susan to be dediated to "YOUR MISSION". Didn't you realize she was? So devoted. The thing is even worker bees need a break. It seems the main stress in this relationship was financial and things just spiraled out of control from there aside from any emerging issues of Susan discovering herself more and wanting quite simply to be treated as an adored female by the man in her life. To be seen as a traitor of some kind when you just need a break and want a bit of social life is coming from a , dare I say it, immature perspective. You are , after all, two separate persons who need to breathe on your own. No matter how much you do with the person you love and are compatible with EVERYONE needs some alone time, quiet time, away time otherwise they stagnate, feel strangled and oppressed by an all consuming "Relationship." It's not healthy.
Arin try taking your love out to a romantic dinner sometime, away on a vacation, buying her a new ouftit, making mad a passionate love to her and just giving her some space. Susan is a sexy vibrant woman and needs to be treated as such. If you give her space, she'll be more than happy to be with you. Treat her like a slave and she'll run for the hills.It shows she is healthy. Also, try getting a paid job and not lean on her for everything. A man should have a source of income. That's part of what makes him a healthy individual. There is no shame in that. Fim making is not an easy thing like i need to tell you that. How about teaching? You've got the fame. You've got the cred. Use it to teach and make a living from it too.
Thanks for the new episodes. Susan you are hot. Look great in that wig girl!